Starting to struggle

[Fluttershy1]

My friends are making me feel like a burden they are telling me to go away and they say no when I ask to hang out with them. It’s just tearing me apart. I hate myself so much at the moment. I feel like I’ve been abandoned. @Jacques - am safe

[Jacques]

i know the pain and hurt friends can bring us, i have not had any friends IRL for over 20 years, it was so much hard work, they stayed around when they where getting things, when i refused they abandoned me, it is so hard to find a true friend, i have found a friend now who is the most amazing person, keep looking @Fluttershy1 there are amazing people out there, we ust have to work extra hard to find them. 

im not sure how old you are but i find virtual friends while playing games help me a lot, i use a program called discord, they have all different types, you can talk and video chat. 

maybe something to look into?

[Fluttershy1]

I’m 20 @Jacques , I play video games I run online groups on Facebook. I attend @ARCVic  support groups. And yeah 

[Jacques]

sounds like you have a lot going on online @Fluttershy1 i know it is not the same, do you have 1 good friend you can count on?

[Fluttershy1]

Not really @Jacques 

[Former-Member]

Hi @Fluttershy1 

I'm sorry to hear you're having a tough evening 😕 It is so hurtful when we feel that from people we consider friends, people we hope to feel safe with. I hope you know that you are so valued here 💚

I wonder if there is a way you can help yourself feel a bit more safe and loved from within tonight? I know, for me, I try to be gentle and kind to myself when I am feeling vulnerable and abandoned as it's usually a time I can be so harsh and critical of myself. 

Do take care @Fluttershy1

And to answer your q from earlier - I never got into the classic pokemon but I sense you might be slowly recruiting us 😉

[Jacques]

hugs my friend, well i am sitting with you, i am here to listen 🙂

[Fluttershy1]

@Former-Member - hehehehehe, I’m always encouring people to go back to old things.

[Fluttershy1]

Thanks @Jacques - got a headache

[Fluttershy1]

Hi @Jacques @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Judi9877 

Hope you are well

Just having a quiet day