@Faith-and-Hope @Snowie @Anastasia @Sans911 and all others...
Mum is back at the hospital - my sister took her in this morning (we can't be in the hospital with her because of restrictions). She is in a lot of pain and has had continued nausea since she went home. They are doing tests, x-rays, etc. to try to find out what is happening and make her more comfortable. Just a waiting game now in the hope they can help her and she feels a little better quickly. I of course won't be going to her place today but hoping she is able to go home today and I can go tomorrow - but need to wait and see ...really worried about her 
Mum is on her way home now @Anastasia My sister called by so I could see her and she looks so tired and so drained. The anti-nausea meds are helping a little and she has a script for more so I am very much hoping that helps her. She needs to be able to get up and moving slowly for her hip to gain mobility but right now with both the nausea and pain all she wants to do is lay down and sleep when she can. I will go to see her tomorrow and do what I can to help - my sister has been doing everything as my Dad is also not in a good place - super worried about both of them There is a lot of work outside I can help with but it will take days to get done - if it is not raining tomorrow I can at least make a start. Going to be a long day and night for me here to get work things done so I can spend the day at my parents' tomorrow ....need 72 hours in the day 
On the positive side I have ordered something for my sister's partner so just my sister and Dad to go - that will have to wait a couple of weeks though as I do not have the funds left right now to cover everything and buy presents as well.
@Faith-and-Hope @Snowie @Sans911 @Owlunar Christmas is not going to be at my place - thank goodness. My sister is getting the kitten and he will be there before Christmas so we are having it at her place 😁✔👍
Super worried about Mum @Snowie She looks so tired and frail - not at all the Mum I know - this surgery and complications has really knocked her around So day not going as planned at all but have to work with what we have hey. Will work on school stuff tonight so I can visit Mum tomorrow and begin cleaning up her garden for her.
How is your day going?
It should not be the norm @Snowie - you deserve so much better 
Struggling for so long and so constantly is in itself draining so take all the moments you can for yourself - enjoy your coffee and hopefully some fur baby hugs.
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SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.