14-07-2024 07:25 PM
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It is hard to find that balance at times @creative_writer
I find coming home difficult at times, as the problems are still there, but at the same time I can have a new perspective on them and even a new fresh set of eyes.
Putting things of can be very overwhelming hon.
14-07-2024 09:39 PM
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15-07-2024 12:09 PM
15-07-2024 12:09 PM
I can understand the putting things off and keeping things in. Sometimes I bottle things up inside. It an create such turmoil inside of us.
I hope you are able to have a good day today hon 💗💗
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16-07-2024 06:11 PM
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Hey @creative_writer stopping in to see how you've been travelling over the last week! Hope placement has been treating you well, and your illness has cleared up 🤞💜
16-07-2024 06:40 PM
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16-07-2024 08:02 PM
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@creative_writer yeah pretty good, got the decluttering process started (was too enthusiastic before when I thought I could get it all finished, lol) and spent some time w my partners, so that was super nice.
Ach, migraine no fun at all. Hope it's not too gnarly and dissipates soon.
Yeah an informal support network is always a boon. Have you spent some time with this resistance, figured out what it's all about?
And I wouldn't worry about that too much, you will 1000% find friends and a support network once you're working in the field. I have some mates who were at SANE with me a while back who I am still on really good terms with! Which is awesome for those moments when you need to have a big vent to someone who also works in a similar area. A bonus of working in mental health is that for the most part, the people we work alongside are super compassionate and caring individuals, easy to connect with!
16-07-2024 08:36 PM
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16-07-2024 09:50 PM
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@creative_writer mm for sure, would make sense to experience that avoidance - I imagine it'll get easier the longer you're in the field though.
I think the degree to which you might need to mask may depend entirely on the organisation you work for. Like SANE have been so open and welcoming to staff with lived experience, but I imagine there are still orgs out there running on archaic value systems and not building trauma-informed care into their staff policies. For example, if I became suddenly very dysregulated I would not feel at all hesitant to let my team know and then take off for the day. There's never been judgement or invalidation in those moments either. So perhaps it's just about finding the right job environment, where psychosocial safety for staff is highly prioritised. These could be good questions for you to ask in future interviews!
Also no offence to your mum but... no. Just no. That kind of thing is what continues to promote the idea that mental health workers aren't also people, who have flaws and struggles and burdens and mistakes just like anyone else. I think you can safely ignore that. And then you can also remind yourself that having lived-experience of mental health struggles (whilst obviously not ideal or desirable) does help us to be more empathic and attuned to our client's needs and experiences, and thus we are better able to walk beside our clients through their journey.
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